Monday, December 14, 2009

Fun with the girls (and JK)

Like I said in a previous post- we were able to spend our first weekend with Sophie and Isabelle. My mom was there for the first couple days with us and then Amy joined us for the next couple. We seemed to get a lot of laughs into the time we had.Nothing like a game of twister- for the young kids and the older ones as well. I am not sure this was the introduction to games that JK was looking for. We were able to head over to the farm with Emily McHugh to do a bit of horse back riding as well.

When all of us Shermer kids headed out of the house it was harder and harder to make sure the horses were ridden so my dad finally decided it was time to sell them. Not an easy decision and really not any easier on the rest of us. How blessed were we that the McHughs were willing to take them. I have watched the McHugh kids for 10 years now and we have built a great relationship. Santana and Tanner- our horses- could not have gone to a better place. Now not only are they taken care of (like royalty compared to Northern MN) but we are able to go visit and ride every now and then.JK walked right up to the horses, petting them and talking to them- no fear. That is until he was on the horse. Amy was not allowed to go very far away and one loop around the arena was enough- but at least he is able to say he has ridden a horse.Sophie and Isabelle are becoming quite the riders as well. Isabelle was able to compete is some games this summer as well as Emily McHugh. Em does an amazing job with Santana and even competed against some professional riders in the Hamal Rodeo. Thanks for a great day- and keep up the good riding Em.
What would a trip to the states be without a good old American game of Bowling. Mom, Amy, JK, Soph, Belle and I were able to hit the Medina Ballroom for a couple games and it was a blast. We laughed and laughed and then got a bit frustrated when the new guy game close to beating all of us- that is until Isabelle got bumpers on her lane and knocked us all out. If Mom and Sophie didn't need them she might not have done quite as good- but still would have competed with us. The funny thing to me is that I bowl ALL WRONG and somehow when teaching JK he managed to get the leg kick thing- and I don't do it at all and didn't even talk about it. Then we watch him bowl and he manages to have the correct form and everything- out of nowhere.You know silliness is always a part of our days.

Take Two

Even if we shouldn't have to. Turns out the flight did exist and if we would have gone to London we could have been home about two hours from now- instead we are still sitting in Minneapolis waiting to go to the airport and try this all over again.

The United people were wrong when they kept telling us it didn't exist and I should have gone with my gut and headed to London anyway- that is what we tried to do, but after all their convincing and me really not wanting to spend 32 hours in an airport and have JK get into any troubles- we stayed back. This morning our travel agent called- there was a flight and we would have been on it. However we are confirmed on the next flight (I have no clue how as they told us all flights are completely booked but hey) and will be home Dec 15th instead. Kinda hard to lose a whole day (and spend a little more money) for nothing. But we'll just try our best to take it all in stride and go for it today. We were told that no matter what they tell us here in MN we are to get to London and go from there. There will be a flight and we need to get on it.

Lor did give us one more chocolate cake with ice cream sundae- so I guess that is a good thing to come out of all this. :)

I'll let you know when we reach

Sunday, December 13, 2009

TRAVELING!!!!!!

The last few days I have been telling people that I wish we just had a couple more days at home to just do nothing- then I would be ready to go. Well we have been given one more day at home to do nothing- and I am now ready to go to Sierra Leone.

After Shermer Family Christmas yesterday we spent the rest of the evening packing only to get up early this morning to head down to the cities for our usual lunch with everyone at TGIFridays. It's always good to get one final good meal and see family (yes we did get our usual photo with all of us taken by our waitress- only it's on Amy's camera since I thought she would be able to upload it first- hmmm). After our long Minnesota goodbyes, Mom, Dad, Kari, and Amy dropped us at the airport. I had one suitcase that didn't have a handle to pull it which Amy commented about. I quickly told her that we only had to take it in to the ticketing counter so I would be fine. Little did I know. A few tears were shed as we finished our goodbyes and JK and I headed in.

There was no line so we walked right up to the counter, scanned our passports, chose our seats for the next two flights and went to check our bags. That's when the trouble started. First there was drama about JK not having a UK visa- then a UK transit visa. We had gone through all this before. JK made a special trip to the British High Commission or whatever they call their Embassy and since we were only in London 6 hours we were told he didn't need one. As long as he doesn't leave the airport and is there for less than 24 hours. We were good. After some explaining and getting a few more people involved that issue was solved. Now back to checking the bags. "Would you like to check them all the way to Freetown" "Yes we would". More time on the computer. All three boarding passes are printed- all the way to Freetown. Two stickers are printed for my bags- then she realizes that they are only checked to London. Back to the computer, more time, two more people involved. Now there is no flight on the 14th from London to Freetown. This flight that we have boarding passes for doesn't exist. More time calling that airline, the travel agency, Karen, going in and out of the back room... Asking us to move our luggage and wait over there. Finally it is decided that we can go to London and figure it out there. The big problem is that ALL the flights into Salone until Jan. are COMPLETELY booked. We were called only days ago to make sure we were going to be on this flight since it was so full and all the flights after it are full. I did NOT want to miss it. Okay decision made we will go to London and figure it out there.

Start checking bags again. This time the guy who had helped the lady on and off is checking our bags. He's on the computer for a bit, prints the baggage stickers and then says hold on while I talk to my boss- AAGGHHH. A few people higher up later, we are now talking to the big man. He tells us that the flight does not exist it is for the same time but on the 15th of Dec. That would mean that JK would be in London for 32 hours- over the 24 hour limit. Well are they going to know that- "they will detain him" he says. Well then what's the worst that could happen - they deport him back to Sierra Leone. :)- "no they will send him back to the US." Alright so what are our options? We just do the same thing- only tomorrow. He could guarantee that we are on the flight from London to Freetown. So once again for the 5th time I PICKED up that suitcase that I did not have the handle to pull it with and we headed out. We hopped in a Taxi (another new experience for JK) and headed to Mike and Lor's. I guess we didn't need that sad goodbye after all- we just get to do it again tomorrow.

So here we sit- in the basement watching TV, playing on the computer and getting that down time I said I wanted. Only now I am in travel mode and ready to be done traveling and we haven't even begun yet.... TOMORROW. (we hope)

Saturday, December 12, 2009

The Twin Cities

Nothing like heading downtown for the first time. It was fun to just park and walk around Minneapolis for a time- then of course we had to hit the big Target to get a couple things we needed as well. I to enjoy walking around the big buildings and just people watching as well. This was a BIG change from Freetown. There are 3 million people who live in Freetown- it is a Large city- and yet it is not developed like our cities here. I know many say it is too busy, traffic is crazy, I don't drive there- but it is SO much more organized than what we are used to. After spending some time in Minneapolis we headed over to St. Paul to visit our friends Sarah and get a tour of St. Thomas. Sarah has been to Sierra Leone a few times, and was just there with us this past May and June. I know that the first few days were really an adjustment to JK and it was fun to go see someone he already knew. Walking around campus and seeing a University here was good. It was also nice to be moving around after spending so many hours just sitting on the planes and in the airports.St. Thomas is a beautiful campus. Not quite the same as Njala University where JK attended. I would have to say that one of our favorite things was seeing this Pipe Organ. We were lucky enough to have someone come in who played while we were there. Listening to this beautiful instrument... it was something we never expected and something we will remember fondly.After our tour we headed back to Sarah's for lunch and then walked down to the Mississippi River. I miss water. We have the ocean but it just is not the same as our lakes and rivers. I loved just walking near it and being able to share it with JK. Over the course of our time here I mentioned many times that we were near or crossing the Mississippi- you forget how it is everywhere. Sarah also took us to the delicious little ice cream place. JK has heard me talk about ice cream forever and just thought I was crazy. Now he is sitting here trying to think of any way possible that we could bring ice cream back with us.That night we headed over to Pete and Alyssa's for some fun. One of the things I missed most while being gone was attending their wedding. It was a day that was hard for me to be away. Pete is my oldest, best, childhood friend. I love him like my brother and always will think of him like no other. I have also loved Alyssa. She came into Pete's life and has truly made it better- mine too. There is no hug like a hug from Pete- and that was the welcome home I really wanted.Had to get in a few rounds of Rock Band. It was fun to JK in the mix. It is a bit harder to play by ear when the keys are colors and the songs are ones you've never heard before- but still provides a lot of laughter.Again I cannot say enough how much I love these two (well three I guess). Thanks for a fun night. I wish there could be more.

Sunday, December 6, 2009

Arriving Home

We left Sierra Leone LATE the night of November 3. Before we even got on the plane it already felt like a long trip. We left Bo around 10 and were lucky to be able to catch a ride to Freetown with a friend in a nice vehicle. However we arrived at the ferry just a little too late for the 2pm ferry and had to sit at the docks for 4 hours. We then headed over to Lungi only to have to wait until 11:45pm for our flight to finally take off. This was JK's first flight ever. I am sorry to say he doesn't like flying. We left in the dark and in a city without much light so it wasn't to exciting to look out the window and then we landed in London in the dark and fog again so... What he remembers is the ear popping and turbulence. The airports were a lot of fun- but we could have gotten by with less than 6 hours in London. I loved seeing things trough JK's eyes. The bathrooms, escalators, moving sidewalks, everything was new and I have to admit I loved it all too. Arriving in Minneapolis, I felt such joy and peace. It was so nice to be home again. We came around the corner to see my mom holding a large picture of Amy on a stick- she came to meet us as well. It was a great hug I got from mom. Even though it was 60 degrees outside we still put our coats on before heading out. The first few days were spent at Mike and Lor's with the girls. I enjoyed this transition into things. Being with Sophie and Isabelle is one of my favorite things and it also gave us a chance to do things but yet not have a ton of people asking for our time- we needed to get our bodies adjusted to being here. Kari came over the morning after we landed. She was able to spend a good portion of the day with us as well as come back on Saturday for our day of fun (more in a later post)

I'm so happy to be home. It was hard to say goodbye and leave the kids and staff- but I AM LOVING being with my family and friends. I really miss them when gone. It also has another element being here with JK. Everything is new again- technology, places, food- oh how I love the food.

(Stay tuned- this time I promise there are more posts to come- we had a busy 6 weeks I need to catch you all up on)

Friday, October 23, 2009

We're Coming Home

Hard to believe that one week from today we will be in the states. Yes I do mean to say we. My friend James Kainwo and I are coming home together. This will be JK's first trip to America. It was quite the ride getting ready for the visa interview, going, and learning that he did get his visa. Now it will be a lot of fun showing him all our crazy things in America, starting with the automatic flush toilets and faucets at the airport. He's excited to see my dad and sisters again as well as other people who have been to Sierra Leone. It will also be great to meet the rest of the family as well as some friends. Nothing like throwing you into things. We will have our big Thanksgiving with my mom's side and then Shermer Family Christmas. We are hoping to get around to see quite a few people as well as work a bit in the shop with my dad. Yes- I can't miss a November in the good old meat shop. For those of you in Iowa we will be there for a week and JK is going to be doing some music with the kids from Jonathan's House there. He has done music with the kids here off and on for the past five years and I know it will be fun for him to see the kids and share some African beats with them again.

We also hope to visit a few places to share what is happening here at Jonathan's House and say thanks for all the support we have been given. It will be a good time for me to also share some stories here on the blog. It hasn't been as easy lately to upload photos and get out a new post. I have so many stories I would love to tell you and hopefully while at home I will be able to do just that.

Please be praying for us as we get ready to go. We leave Tuesday night and as I said we will be gone for 6 weeks. I am sure it will fly by and yet it is a long time to be gone from here. I know that everyone here will manage just fine, but it is hard to say goodbye and get everything set up. I know I will miss the kids and they won't let me forget that I am leaving them and that they will miss me as well. Pray for everyone here while we are gone as well- including JK's family.

Thanks for your support and prayers these past 6 months. I hope to see many of you while I am home and catch up on a little of what you have been doing as well.

Monday, September 14, 2009

Randomness

So a few updates-



  • I was a little sick this past weekend. Just so you know I am fine now, but the thing is here when you are sick EVERYONE comes to visit you. So here I am vomiting and having a bit of diarrhea (I know you didn't want to) and all I want is to lie in bed between trips to the bathroom. Instead I am answering the door on the half hour and then have to sit with people for a few minutes at a time. The kids were really sweet and knowing everyone cared was great- but next time I will just hide out and tell no one.
  • The Rainy Season is slowly coming to an end- though it is still making it's presence known. Now each time there is a hard rain it almost completely washes our road out. It is like a raging river. I was out trying to make my way back home and it was a good thing I knew the road well- where the big holes are, where the road is no longer there, which side to drive on at which point. You could have taken your rafting boat down it. I saw some ladies trying to walk and when they had to step into the road in a few parts- they almost lost their footing as the rushing water took one of the ladies bags down to who knows where. (I did ask her the next day if she got it back- she had to follow it quite a ways but did manage to get it back) I wanted to stop and take a photo on my phone but I was afraid if I stopped I would never make it home.

          • I do like the jeep for when it is raining, but I have come to love the Honda for getting around all the pot holes or "gallops" in the road. They cover just about everywhere and it can take a long time to bounce around and get even just one block in the jeep. I like when JK brings the Honda and we can get places much quicker.



  • Good times with friends. I have been able to spend a bit of time with the Kainwo family. Nancy, Tenneh, and Lily have all been in and out of Bo and different times and I love hanging with these girls. Nancy lives in Bo regularly so we do get to spend a bit more time together. We head to church together often. This particular Sunday we had just gotten the jeep back, but the battery wanted to cause us some trouble- we had to jog the jeep to start it. So here we are in our Sunday best running behind the jeep- always good times. No worries Abu the good mechanic was on a honda- met us at church and solved the problem and everything has been fine since.

  • Little Christie really is Christie- They named her Christie Massaquoi. The first few days she slept so much and was really calm and quite easy. Now she has found her voice and seems to have her nights and days mixed up (I wonder if she was up last night just as I was listening to the Packers WIN in the middle of the night :))

    • Here we are together. She just happened to yawn as we took the picture- she's still cute though. I have to say that I have enjoyed having my friendship with Jenna grow just as much as I have enjoyed watching Christie grow. These two are fast becoming good friends and more of a daily part of my life.

              Yesterday Jenna put Little Christie on her back and po-poed her over to check on me since I had not been over and they heard I was sick.

  • Marion also had her baby. A sweet little girl. Marion is one of the girls who used to live at JH. If you followed my posts last time you might remember her. She completed a trade school last year and has been living outside of JH for almost a year now. I have to admit I was quite sad when I learned upon returning that she was pregnant. She is a young girl still trying to find her way. We'll do what we can to come along side her and support her in this and help her be the best mom she can be to her precious daughter. Her little one was born last Friday. Marion took a Honda while in labor out to Gondama- gave birth and then came home in a taxi that same day. WOW. It is crazy to think that not only do we stay in the hospital but they also check your car seat make sure your little one is safe and so are you. Here they just send you on your way- you hold your child in your arms and ride in the overloaded car down the bumpy roads. They made it home safely though and Marion is doing just fine taking care of her baby. The older girls and I intend to visit her again soon.
  • The kids started school today. I must admit that I was a bit ready. 51 kids not having a routine or a schedule is fine for a time but... Thankfully school and a bit of structure is back. It was a bit crazy trying to get all the kids ready- uniforms, shoes, bags, books, pens and pencils, and whatever else they think they need (but really don't and just might not get). I think we just might have made it. Even the little girls going to nursery school for the first time... it was so cute.

  • I don't remember if I mentioned that there are not 1 but 2 other couples right her in Bo Town that are from MN. One couple is around my parents age and the other maybe a decade older than that. Well they are all great. We meet as often as we can- maybe once or twice a month- have dinner and then head over to Del and Linda's for a few games of darts. It is a bit funny to see me with them, but it just fits and is always a good time. Tonight is our night once again. I gotta figure out how to stop these old guys from beating me every time. We Minnesotans are everywhere. I have also just recently learned that another women from MN is coming this weekend to open an orphanage in Freetown.

  • I've learned that I am just not quite a native after all. I have gotten pretty good at using local latrines. There are a few different styles. One- use the great outdoors- done that. Two- a hole in the floor in a room- squat and aim. Three- a cement box built up with a larger hole in it, usually some sort of wooden board covering the hole that you lift of and set on the floor and then replace. Four- a cement box with a wooden seat built on top of it with the usual hole in it and with a cover. Well my pride might have needed to be taken down a few notches and it was. I was feeling pretty good that I could be just fine and use any of these options (sure I prefer my bathroom at JH that has a normal toilet- even if I do have to flush it with a bucket of water)- no worries about me, I'm just like the locals. Well after spending the day at the Aunty Margaret's (the Kainwo family) and using the bathroom at least three times that day (a option three- I tend to still hover with this option) JK calls to let me know that when he went to use the bathroom that night he opened the door to find a snake on the box and before he could kill it it went DOWN INTO THE HOLE!!! Yup I think that just might be my last time for a while- I think I might even be more comfortable with options 1 and 2 than I am with 3 or 4. They burn this oil and what not and put it down inside, but now I am going to be picturing that in my head wherever I go. It might take awhile to get over this one- and I didn't even see it.
            • It doesn't seem quite right to put this great photo of Aunty Margaret and JK after that story and yet they were both mentioned and I like the photo so... This was taken on Africana Sunday. Aunty Margaret is my Sierra Leonian mother and she has done a great job of taking care of me and welcoming me right into her family. I love her dearly and respect her greatly. She has done an amazing job raising her 4 kids, sending them through school, including university- practically alone- in a very male dominant society.


  • Africana Sunday. A couple Sundays ago it was Africana Sunday at church. That meant everyone had to come in their African dress- the music, announcements, sermon, and what not were in Mende. We used drums and shakers. It was a good time. Of course each Sunday many people do where African clothes, but the Western influence is there- especially in the men wearing suits, ties, dress pants. Girls shoes and jewelry are often western. Not this Sunday. Everything I was wearing was made here in Salone including the leather and rubber tire bottom sandals. Tenneh and Lily even added some hair into my and braided it in a truly African style- yet my head wrap covers it in this photo. It actually worked quite well and for the special service at church next Sunday Violet is going to try doing it again with a different style- I'll make sure and get a picture. These girls are and are becoming good friends to me. I love them each.



      Belinda, Violet, Christie, and Lily. The thing here is to not look at the camera and to not show your teeth. Sometimes we can get a picture and everyone will look, but often it is more like this- so maybe I should work on my poses- as I am the one out of place here- well in more ways than one but...


      Alright I guess that is enough of an update for now. I am not sure what happened to this layout- but about now I am too tired to try and figure it out so...Next time.