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Wednesday, December 31, 2008
Snowshoeing into Vermilion Falls
As soon as well started we both had to use the bathroom- thank God for out houses. Taking off our snowshoes is not one of our favorite things so we managed to use the facilities without having to remove them. Talent. We happened to arrive first and be the only ones at the falls but it wasn't long before many different groups of snowmobilers joined us. We were the only ones to brave trekking in without winter machines and for some reason it seemed to impress many of them. We even happened to be called sweeties- not a name we were too impressed with but...
Though some of the water was open, the main part of the Falls was not only frozen but covered in snow so we weren't able to see as much, but it was a great time to be in the woods covered in snow. I do love that part of winter.
Taking off the showshoes to head further down the Falls sounded like a good idea, but only served to remind us how useful they are. The snow was a bit deep and we each managed to end up with more than just our feet in the snow at least once.
We were a bit cold by the time we reached our car. We headed straight to Grandma Syvilla's where she promptly heated some water for Hot Chocolate and got out the sweets.
We truly enjoyed blazing our own trails (however I seemed to almost always be the one in front making the initial tracks- hhmmm... Amy?!?!) and are now thinking about our next trail to head out on.
Wednesday, December 17, 2008
Broomball, Basketball, Bruises and Beth (sorry Holly you don't start with a B)
Darby is on the Junior Varsity team. She was a lot of fun for me to watch. I've made it to some games over the past years, but you know that point when it moves beyond a bunch of girls running up and down the court just trying to get it into the hoop? Well they are past that and it is great to watch her decision making and all the skills she has acquired. She's gonna be a great baller. (Already is I guess)
We spent some time reminiscing about camping trip to the BWCA, school trip to Europe, learning who is where from Cook and just a lot of time laughing. I love when you are able to be with old friends and feel right at ease. I miss these two and am so thankful we were able to get together- and learn a few things while we were at it. (Don't hold the baby too close, Hawaii is not America, your phone can attach to your radio. :-)) I hope to get together again soon.
Saturday, December 13, 2008
You can take the girl out of Africa, but you can't take Africa out of the girl
Thursday, December 11, 2008
Hangin' with Jack
I did however forget to teach Jack a few things- and should have been fired. I was meeting with my friend Karen at McDonalds so Jack could run around in the playland for a bit. Karen watches Jack often and is like his second mother, so all of this should have made for a great time, until we heard Jack crying up in the top of the Playland. First we had to look at each other and ask, "Is that Jack?" Great sitters, then we start calling him to come down when he really starts crying- "alright Jack for you I will climb up into this thing," I had just told myself when this dad already starts up the tube saying, "That's probably my son too, I'll get them." So Karen and I wait at the bottom just in time to see Jack and the little boy trip at the end and tumble out together. Jack has a couple scratches on his face and marks on the back of his neck. The kid (who is about 3) had Jack in a headlock and was putting some moves on him Jack hasn't learned yet. The dad was great- had his son apologize and took him right home. Jack was pretty much done for the day, but he did rebound well. Good thing Dad took him to a wrestling meet a couple days later to teach him the things I did not. Pay attention Jack for the next time you get into a brawl at McD's.One of the best days was Thursday when Amy took a half day and we went to lunch and shopping for the rest of the day. It was a much needed time for the two of us. I have missed her dearly and love that once we are together again it is like no time has past. I'm sure Steve is thankful we didn't get ourselves into a craft project this time.
Being involved in Jonathan House has also given me some friendships with a few others around Marshalltown, most of them I met at different times while in Salone. I love coming into town knowing I have dinner with this family, lunch with another friend, and coffee with the next. These people have come to mean a lot to me and it's always nice to be with people who understand all the little things that happen over in Africa. Of course i was able to meet with Roger and Karen (each a couple times) and things are moving forward in order for me to head back to Salone. I will fill you in on that soon.
For now I am back in the freezing Northland where I finally had to break down and take my Grandma Syvilla's advice and wear a few extra layers. Now of course Grandma suggested cuddle-duds (not sure how you really spell it) which I do know are great, but for now I just wear an extra pair of pants underneath and at least 3 shirts. I am sure I'll come around and get used to the weather just in time to leave again.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008
Building a School African Style
It was finally time to start miking the cement and pouring the foundation. Large and small rocks had to be carried around the rim of the trenches to mix in with the cement. The girls and I were in charge of making sure there was enough water in the drums for the mixing as well as to work with some of the other kids carrying the stones. The cement is mixed on the ground. First a layer of sand is poured out, bag of concrete mix on top of that, a layer of rocks, and then buckets of water poured on top while guys are using shovels to turn it over and mix it up. It is then loaded into a metal pan with handles on the side and carried to the place where it will be dumped into the foundation- each load consisting of only a couple shovel fulls. When the distance gets to be too far an assembly line is started and the full tray is passed through with an empty one coming back. It takes a bit of time to get all the way around the building but it is done and even leveled out (again using string and a piece of wood nailed into a T to smooth it out).
Saturday, November 29, 2008
Thanksgiving
Saturday, November 22, 2008
Emmanuel Bangalie
Loving, compassionate, caring, athletic, hard-working, stubborn, funny, a good friend- Emmanuel Bangalie carried all of these characteristics and more. One of the things that stands out most to me is just how much Emmanuel loved football. Now of course most of the boys at JCC love football, but Emmanuel played as often as he could and almost always in the goal. At one point he had a huge boil on his knee that had caused his knee to swell almost twice its size, despite all the pain- you could still find him on the football field each day at 4pm. Just within the past year he was allowed to play with the older boys and yet he still played each time the younger boys did as well. He was just waiting for the day when he could put on a jersey and play on the JCC team.
He was at the age where he was adjusting between being one of the middle boys into being one of the older boys. When it was time to get wood or haul rocks for building the school, Manny was at the front of the line. He was not only strong, but always willing to help. Emmanuel was in charge of the wood for the kitchen. In the mornings he would get the wood the cooks needed for the day and if there was a time when any of the rest of us wanted to cook something we had to go see Emmanuel to get the wood we needed. Many of the kids have areas of the home in which they are responsible for and most of them do it well, but with Emmanuel you could always count on him doing it with a smile as well as going the extra step.
Being a part of the JCC dance team was also a highlight for him. He seemed to have an extra bounce in his step and if you really gave him the floor he would go all out with his somewhat goofy moves that would put a smile on anyone’s face (I think that was what he was aiming for). At prayer time each night, no matter what the day had brought, you could usually find Emmanuel singing with his full voice and dancing with all that he had. Speaking of prayer time, for some reason whenever it was Manny’s turn to lead Wednesday night prayer meeting, or share a verse at prayer time, he would pull his shorts up almost as high as they would go, tuck his shirt in and stand with his chest out. I am not sure why he did this, but it was his thing and in a way it showed how proud he was to have his turn to share his Jesus.
Now Emmanuel was still a boy who managed to find trouble at times. He liked to joke and sometimes didn’t know when to stop and didn’t always know his own strength. I have to admit there was more than one time when one of the house parents had to get up at prayer time to talk about showing love to our brothers and sisters referring to Emmanuel’s actions. In showing love it meant that we could not shut others out. He was good at going long periods of time without talking to the person he was upset with. He was stubborn and didn’t let things go easily, but the thing that was so special about him was that when he did let God work in his heart and find forgiveness or even ask for forgiveness- he truly put it in the past and you would find Emmanuel walking with his arm around that person for the next few days being the closest of buddies.
He had a soft heart, willing to put aside his wants and ALWAYS willing to help out, whether it was carrying the wood or rocks, but also even doing laundry, cooking or mending a shirt. I would pull into the compound after coming from the market with 9 bags of rice and all the rest of the food needed for the home and the first people there would be Emmanuel and Jerry. After everything was hauled into the store room, he would come over to me, put his arm around my shoulders and say thank you for going to town. He often pulled others into a hug, or just stepped up beside them to put his arm around them. He was willing to show he cared and did it frequently. He had an ability to sense how those around him were feeling and he didn’t hesitate to offer his help. He needed to be able to bring comfort to those he loved which included everyone at JCC. Emmanuel was a lover and I know it was because of who God made him to be and the work of Jesus Christ in his life.
It is difficult to think he is not here with us. It seems wrong that he will not put on that jersey and be a full member of the JCC football team, and yet Psalms 139:16 reminds us that each of his days were written before he was born. God was not surprised Saturday morning. Emmanuel lived the life God gave him and he lived it fully with energy, passion, laughter and love. I know that I am grateful for the time I was able to spend with Emmanuel. I love that each time I think of him I can’t help but smile as I am sure it is for many who knew him. For a time that smile will be accompanied by tears, but I know Manny is dancing right now. He loved Jesus here on earth and now he is meeting his friend and savior face to face, with his pants pulled up and his chest puffed out, his head tilted slightly with a full smile on his face.
Romans 8:38-39 says:
“For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord.”
Our son, brother and friend is now eternally in the presence of our Papa God experiencing his full glory and love. How can we not celebrate the life he lived as well as where he is right now. Soon we’ll all be playing football, singing and dancing together again.
Please pray for the kids and staff at JCC as they mourn and remember Emmanuel
Saturday, November 1, 2008
What- My car is not built for Off-roading?!?!
It's Koryn
I love these two and am grateful to be able to spend more time with them as they come up for deer season opener next weekend. I will not be hunting, so maybe I'll have to be on duty with the kids. (that is if Grandpa Mark doesn't have me signed up for duty in the meat shop)
Friends with the Folmans
My "Nephew" Jackson
He truly is the best baby- so easy going and really does like to smile, that is until the camera comes out. Then it is always this wide-eyed look you see here. Jackson was born about than two weeks after my niece Koryn was born but was bigger than her the day he arrived and has continued to make her look like small.
I was able to stay for tacos with Holly and Aaron and just spend some time catching up. I love that they are not too far away and hope to get down there again sometime soon.
Friday, October 24, 2008
I'm Home- and Freezing :)
And of course a shot with me and the group. We had to go over early as the airport is on an island so we have to go by the ferry schedule. We arrived a little after 4 I think and were able to drop my two LARGE suitcases at the airport and walk around for a bit. We went to this quaint little restaurant to have one last African meal. IT WAS GOOD. However I still did not eat the fish head on my plate- I think that may take many YEARS living there in order to come around to enjoying that part- though I do like fish now.
And me back with the fam once again.I have to say I missed my mom a lot. She was not able to come visit with my dad and sisters and when I left for Sierra Leone- I left my mom in the hospital. I cannot tell you how great it was to see her and give her a big hug.